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This post was inspired by a question that a visitor of the blog asked. I took time to pray and go through scripture pertaining to this very topic in order to construct an answer based on my understanding on the matter inspired by the Bible of reasons pants/trousers should not be in the wardrobe of any woman but especially Christian women in our modern society.
My Response: Wow, thank you so much for your analysis and thought-provoking question! I do appreciate it. In the beginning, God made male and female (Genesis 1:27; 5:2). Right there at creation, we see the difference in the two individuals that God created - not two males, not two females but male and female. Deuteronomy 22:5 infers that because God made male and female there must be a physical differentiation between them in their dressing to speak to their individual genders. This kind of difference is not only to be seen in the stitching of the clothes but in an application; such distinction is expected to be seen mainly but not limited to the clothing worn on the lower part of the body. This is not to say that women should purposely go out and purchase men's shirts etc for their upper body; we are to still purchase the clothes that are deemed appropriate for our respective genders as designated in department stores. HOWEVER, there MUST be a variance in the lower region of the clothing that the two genders put on. This is because a woman's body is shaped completely different from a man. A woman has curves, and her rear end is padded a little more than our male counterparts. Women are very beautifully unique on the lower region of our body; yet, our figure is a great temptation to the eyes, imagination, and thoughts of the men in our world; because of that, and to promote godliness God expects women to wear clothing that will fit loosely on our body so that we are not causing men to commit the inward sin mentioned by Jesus in Matthew 5:28.
Nowadays when you go into department stores trousers in the female section of the store are labeled and designed to accentuate a woman's curvy figure. Even though God created our body to be the way that it is, it was not meant for public display for every man to look and lust upon; our body is to be seen in totality and enjoyed by our "Adam" remembering that Adam was the only man who saw Eve in her nakedness. "And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed."-Genesis 2:25 The enemy through the wearing of pants by women has introduced immorality on a grander scale as men lust after these women in pants and various other immodest apparel inwardly and outwardly as adultery and fornication abound! As one article states "even the world recognizes the distinction between men and women's appearance evidenced by the universal symbols designating restrooms in public places: a figure wearing pants for males and a figure wearing a dress or skirt for females." In our world today, many Christian women wear pants and just because those Christians are doing it doesn't make the wearing of pants by females acceptable in the sight of God. "Adam saw nothing wrong with Eve eating the fruit. He joined her in doing so. Cain saw nothing wrong in offering grain in worship. Aaron saw nothing wrong with the people dancing around a golden calf. Yet, each of these was a serious offense to the Lord and brought His strong condemnation." The distinction at creation in the two people that God created is expected to transcend to the clothes the two genders put on so as to foster orderliness in the world (1 Corinthians 14:40). "
Clothing such as is worn on the upper body for both male and female are worn in similar ways; yet stitched and designed differently for male and female. We are to purchase the ones that are deemed appropriate for our respective genders. However, due to the unique shape of a woman's lower body which pants tend to shamefully expose Christian women are to stay away from it. Pants is a man's garment as seen even as universal restroom designations as the women's restroom have a sign of a female in a skirt or dress and a sign of a male in trousers for men's restroom. Also, pants throughout history have always been known to be worn by males - farmers, police officers, soldiers, etc. "On June 25, 1977, the American Broadcasting Company, in [a] research presentation called 'Close-up', [stated], 'approximately twenty-five years ago, the female began to adopt the lifestyles of men, to demand men's work patterns, to participate in masculine activities, and to wear masculine apparel." Now in order for the enemy to make women sin against God, he has inspired designers to pattern pants for females but this time making it compliment the female body - revealing her curves and wrongly exposing her rear end so that men can lust - sin further multiplied! This feminizing of pants encourages Christian women to argue that "well after all there are women's pants and men's pants" not knowing the plan of the enemy! Pants for women are immodest as its design and make-up are to bring complete attention to the figure of a woman's body to be lusted upon and idolized by men. Pants being "baggy" is an additional way for the enemy to make it acceptable to wear. "One may wear loose slacks, but they still show the form of their legs, thighs, and posterior, and as soon as that lady bends over, squats, or sits down, those slacks will be stretched tightly over their form and reveal just as much as if they wore tight pants." The devil will always do all that he can to deceive people into disobeying God's command and give them reasons to justify their sinful actions.
Pants are worn by women also removes the beauty of being discreet, chaste (Titus 2:5) having a "meek and quiet spirit" (1 Peter 3:4), that God expects of women from within to be seen outwardly. When females wear pants they sit and behave anyhow, they are not careful that any part of their body will be exposed if caution is not taken. Oppositely, when a female wears a skirt or a dress she sits in a certain way, she does not involve herself in activities that will cause her nakedness to be exposed; she is careful, gentle, and meek just as God expects! Essentially, training young girls at an early age to wear skirts helps instill in them and molds the female character of gentleness, chastity, and sobriety. Pants free females to behave in ways that are unbecoming of the female gender that God created. God demands distinction of the genders as even our reproductive organs vary! Masculinity is associated with aggression, protection, and provider which the wearing of pants fully supports as men are strong, able bodies working diligently to provide for their families. Femininity, on the other hand, is associated with submissiveness (that submission is challenged and put to the ultimate test as the wife and husband wear pants in the same home denoting two 'heads of authority' when there should only be one head - the man), gentleness, and humility.
Wearing of pants by women creates in their mind the idea that they can do what men can do; sadly do they realize that the kind of godly respect, support, protection and 'honor' (1 Peter 3:7) that they deserve from males has been depleted; females strive to be on the same level with men, competing with men in wearing pants and taking on "men's jobs." If a man is in a position where he is competing with his fellow man on the corporate ladder there is only room for "pushy-pushy" attitude and doing whatever it takes to reach to the top! There is very little room for gentleness and consideration for the opponent! Many a times the opponent is a woman! How can a man give respect to a woman who is adamantly striving to achieve a position that he feels belongs to him as a man? God created females to be treated as queens, king's daughters not to be trampled upon, called filthy names, and competed against by males! As I examine the female character and role through scripture, I realize that women were not originally designed to take on jobs in our world that we often associate with the male gender such as construction workers, soldiers, firefighters, Sanitation workers, etc. This is because such professions encourage equality of the sexes.
God did not intend for there to be equality in male and female. God created Adam first and gave him the authority to give name to everything that He made (Genesis 2:19). This shows that God has given men a special position and prerogative in the world. Women as scripture puts it are "weaker vessels"; something that is weak is to be held and cared for with all prudence and sensitivity; but as the weaker vessel women are not to be disregarded and treated as less than or inferior to man rather women are to be given honor. There is divine beauty in the difference in male and female. Men are strong and women are delicate and soft. Male and female differ; yet there's a glorious balance and congruity in the variance in male and female which gives glory to God the creator. The only biblical equality that males and females have is that they are heirs together of the grace of life (1 peter 3:7); and joint heirs with Christ (Romans 8:17). God sees all his children as equal beneficiaries of pardon of sin through the sacrificial death of His son, grace to live a life that pleases Him, and blessings that accompany obedience to his word; nevertheless, equality in the appearance and conduct of male and female is unacceptable in His sight.
Scripture affirms that women should be "keepers at home" (Titus 2:5); (this however does not condemn women working with their hands and earning an income - check out the Proverb 31 woman! This is a topic for another day); but rather being a keeper at home is every woman's primary responsibility. A keeper of the home in this context is a woman who manages the home, takes care of the daily activities in the home as well as train the children and bring them up in the way of the Lord. But as the world has so advanced women have taken roles in society that forces them to abandon their God-given first job of a home maker. Furthermore, because a lot of women now do "men's job" such as police-officers, and their involvement in the military, etc they are placed in a position whereby they "must" wear pants in order to uphold their position in the job or even do the job in the way that the men do it for a job well done. However, if a Christian women feels as though God is calling her to perhaps go into a profession whereby she will be required to wear trousers I believe that that is between that individual and God. But I do have to add that God is not an author of confusion; with that, I strongly state that no matter the nature of the job if a woman professing godliness desires to wear skirts God will give her the favor she needs in the job and in the sight of her bosses to honor Him. I will also dare add that I have noticed that there is a certain beauty and femininity in the appearance of females when they wear skirts and dresses modestly revealing their dignity and identity with Christ as opposed to trousers.
I am certain also that no matter the culture in different places of the world skirts and dresses have always been an object of clothing that is worn by women. Therefore, if there are cultures where there seem to be a bit of 'cross-dressing' Christians in such places have to take a second thought in reevaluating their cultural clothes so as to showcase the distinction (not only in stitching but in application) in clothing that God commands of the two very different genders that He created. God's word is more powerful and to be obeyed OVER any earthly culture or tradition (Acts 5:29; 1 Sam 15:22). In addition, I have faith that God preserves His people who have purposed in their hearts to serve and obey him. So then if a Christian woman who has purposed in her heart to serve and live for God happens to live in Antarctica and chooses to wear skirts even in the brutal cold weather, I am confident that she will be hidden under the pavilion of God, and clothed with the perfection of His divine protection because God honors those who obey Him (1 Samuel 2:30).
Personally, I refuse to put on clothing that are 'masculine' trousers in particular. God created me as a woman differently from a man. I choose to wear clothing that will publicize my feminine character of chastity, meekness, humility, sobriety, quiet spirit, gentleness and kindness. I have found that skirts and dresses endorse this beauty of femininity; thus, I will obey God and dress distinctly from the male gender as God desires. Not my will but His will be done (Luke 22:42).
For the individual who asked this question I pray I've answered your question.
God bless,
-Charity
Omg! Lol you wrote so much..the holy spirt was moving. Amen. I was feeling down about my modesty today but my.conviction is indeed true and I will continue to adhere to it. God bless you!
ReplyDeleteLol, I know it is very long! The holy spirit definitely kept giving me inspiration. Feeling down about modesty, how come?
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how about if you have to like for gym or nursing
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I pray by God's grace I answered your question!
-Charity
Today's prevalent fashion of pants for women obviously leaves little to the imagination for a man's mind, though in western culture, the man appears to be the first to wear the pants, in other cultures they were seemingly both equally worn by the same sex, modestly though. Like the indians, algarians etc. Here are some links i fell upon sometime as to what algarian women looked like in thier "harem pants". Yes and pants are mainly the garments emphasized forgetting caps,tshirts,shirts (like with buttons were originally mens underwear) etc.
ReplyDelete1).http://anarkali-zakuro.blogspot.ca/2013/04/algerian-urban-costume-step-1-research.html
2).http://1930bychrisjackson.wordpress.com/2011/01/29/lhistoire-de-modeharem-pants/
3).http://globerove.com/algeria/traditional-algerian-clothing/4995
4).http://lindawomenclothing.wordpress.com/2012/11/19/a-brief-history-why-harem-pants-are-fashion/
God will help us do what is right.
...anyway, well written post and looks like a lot of time was spent on it! :)
DeleteThanks for your answer! that must've taken a lot of time out of you to write ^_^.
ReplyDeleteWell, I don't see where in the Bible it said that the distinction in dressing is to be seen mainly on the lower part of the body. Our upper is as much different than a man's as our lower. our waist is different, and we have our chest. Why isn't there much distinction there as well? That's my first question. Also, as someone else hinted up top, what about exercise? Its not a mans job or a womans job. We need it to keep fit: So would it be wrong for me to buy a shirt that isn't distinctly feminine At ALL (a grey long t-shirt) for that purpose?
In those department stores, a lot of "jeans" are accentuating, granted. I get that, it can get quite bad as you look outside.
However, the world only recognizes the pants vs skirt bathroom signs due to Western culture. If western culture had never touched Japan, granted, the women probably wouldn't be wearing our traditional "knee-length" (which the bathroom symbols have on them) skirts. Same with in Africa, Middle East, where ever else the skirt vs pants did not originate.
Shirts can be as equally exposing as pants here- but no one complains of other people being able to see the shape of a womans chest-no matter how loose the shirt is, shape is visible! I guess people see that as "natural" while our posterior is not? I'm not advocating showing off either, of course, Im just asking why its not the same thing.
I understand the part where you were talking about the discreetness of women and how they sit.
About the men's jobs, I think I disagree. Are women supposed to put themselves in situations where gentleness and consideration are given to them? That's kind of like asking a Christian woman not to preach in a certain part of town because it is rough and the people aren't exactly "friendly", even though that place is ready for harvest. Ok, its not the same in the "souls" department but you understand where I'm drawing at I'm sure. The well-off or higher-off paying jobs usually are in what is considered "male work"- such as business, doctors, mayor/governor/congress etc. To be sure,are you saying that women can not strive for the high paying and high education jobs because they're 'men jobs' with competition?
Now and days, not everyone has a husband to rely on,and of course they must make a living and they have to eat. Or in the case that a woman has children but the husband left or has no job and they have the opportunity to go to school for one of those higher paying jobs. Or in the case that a woman wants to make sure her future children have money to do all they need to do in the future. Is she to decline? I'm saying that yes, women should be treated like Queens, But, people either take advantage of this fact and act like women are inferior, or women find themselves in uncanny situations.
I don't quite understand what you mean by 'cross dressing' Christians in different cultures.We should reevaluate how we dress- if we don't we can step out of line. But, The very characters in our Bible , men and women, wore long gowns. Are we to call their dressing 'cross dressing' because men technically wore skirts? You said in the very first paragraph that "HOWEVER, there MUST be a variance in the lower region of the clothing that the two genders put on." Our Biblical Heroes did not follow this.This tradition still goes on in different places. Drawing to the Antarctica example, and keeping God's word in mind, would it trulybe realistic for a native woman of Antarctica to say that the idea that 'pants always were worn by men' is relevant, even though in their own lands it is not, since both genders wore that for a very long time?
Hey,
DeleteThank you for your questions. I just finished drafting a reply only to find out that my reply is too long so it won't allow me to submit it. Do you mind sending me an email via modestic.elegance11@gmail.com and I can send you the reply that way?
-Charity
No Problemo, I sent one.
Deletei understand what you are trying to say, and i loved the post....but does wearing a pants makes me less of a woman? i don't think that its competing with a man or anything, i just love it, i don't think that im careless when im wearing them.....hmm i dont really know, well maybe you can email me tiffany_griffith57@yahoo.com
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ReplyDeleteFrom what I have found, the wearing of pants was done originally by both women and men. The women though wore them for combat and horse riding. And, in the Bible, the people in there wore robes. There are some passages however that indicate Aaron and the Leviticus priests wearing pants/trousers . However, they were likely underwear given wear they would go on them. There are some modest pants a woman can wear. However, I think skirts and dresses would be the better option. That’s would would be best in general for women.
ReplyDeleteFrom what I have found, the wearing of pants was done originally by both women and men. The women though wore them for combat and horse riding. And, in the Bible, the people in there wore robes. There are some passages however that indicate Aaron and the Leviticus priests wearing pants/trousers . However, they were likely underwear given wear they would go on them. There are some modest pants a woman can wear. However, I think skirts and dresses would be the better option. That’s would would be best in general for women.
In an age where many ask how close can I get to sin without offending God, it's rare to find those who ask how far can I get away from sin? Very rare and commendable and I see that attitude in your post. Keep it up! Do I believe that it is a sin to wear pants? I don't but am willing to study scripture and seek God further on the matter. However, I may not agree with everything but I will respect the fact that the Holy Spirit convicted you on these matters and so I will purposely support you on this matter.
ReplyDeleteI absolutely loved reading this and learned so much ❤ as someone who attended an all-girls Catholic primary school (elementary school) there was a strict dress code that would only allow skirts which were below the knee. At the time, many of the students including myself interpreted this strict policy as a form of impunity and imposing archaic ideals in a modern world. This ideology followed me into my high school years when I was enrolled in a mixed Christian boarding school which provided the option of skirts or trousers (pants). It was actually on my very first day at this boarding school when I chose to wear a skirt which I considered to be beautiful with its colourful shades of green and blue checks and iron pressed pleats. I was so excited to make my high school debut wearing this skirt which was below the knee but alas! As soon as I walked into my classroom and the teacher introduced me to my classmates (I joined in later in the school term as I switched from the local 8-4-4 system to the IGCSE system) the whole room erupted into laughter! I was shocked and confused, wondering what would have possibly caused this reaction, it was upon getting settled in my dorm room that I was informed that my skirt was 'too long' and that I looked 'so weird'. I was devastated and horrified to say the least and chose to never wear skirts again throughout high school. This was a decision that invited unwarranted fondling from some of the boys who felt incredibly entitled and had the audacity to smack unsuspecting girls' bottoms with their hands. This behaviour from the boys was humiliating and was a form of hazing to test your boundaries and self respect ( I realised this now in retrospect). This was normalised to the point where girls would giggle and get excited after being spanked and the gesture became a form of endearment. Needless to say, God intervened and I accepted the gift of grace through Jesus to a point where right now as a student in university, I wear my skirts with pride even though I am constantly referred to as a 'grandma' due to my modest dressing choices. I am grateful to God for renewing my mind and helping me realise the error of my ways through immodest dressing. It's safe to say, I am on the right track �� ��
ReplyDeleteI love your testimony. I have to say you are very lucky, I also went to a Catholic but instead, I was forced to wear pants and it felt so uncomfortable
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